The Commission in a statement issued recently stated that information making the rounds on websites and social media requesting job seekers to apply for vacancies at different organisations through the Commission is dubious.

“We unequivocally declare that those online publications are fictitious and should be disregarded as they did not emanate from the Commission.

“The Commission is not recruiting currently. The general public is advised to be wary of the activities of fake recruitment syndicates and racketeers.

“Whenever the Commission officially commences any recruitment exercise, it will be publicly announced on the Commission’s website (www.fedcivilservice.gov.ng).

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The United Kingdom (UK) Prime Minister Rishi Sunak has been fined for not wearing a seatbelt in a moving car while filming a social media video.

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Comrade Chris Isiguzo said fake news has given media profession a bad name, Daily Dates Nigeria reports.

Isiguzo was reacting at the weekend over the publications in the social media online plattform that the two Channels television Journalists who anchored Gov Ortom’s interview in the sunrise morning show were arrested by the Department of State Security Service (DSS).

Comrade Isiguzo who met with the United Igbo Journalists Forum in Abuja explained that the online publications that the Chanels television Journalists were arrested was fake adding that they were only invited by the National Broadcasting Commission for questioning.

He said after the chat with NBC management, they were asked to go immediately at the intervention of the national secretariat led by him.

He urged the social media and some fifth columnist who have decided to destroy the media profession through fake news to desist from such act as the union is determined to raise the arm of the law against piovioters of fake news.

The president who advocated for better working conditions for journalists in the country also disclosed that media organisationsions who are owing journalists arrears of salaries without making genuine efforts to clear them will be picketed by the union as a last option.

He further stated that the union has secured payments of its members who were owed several months of salary arrears in some media houses.

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Hear Chioma: ‘’It has been uncomfortable living with my mother-in-law. She insists I do my husband’s laundry which I never did even while we were dating and in our first few years of marriage. My husband’s laundry has always been done by dry-cleaners. Beyond this, I feel policed in my own house; like I am working on egg shells. I do not know how to talk to my husband about it. Please I will appreciate your advice on how to deal with this problem. I will be reading comments.’’

Social media could end marriage as we know it. It has become the stranger in the bed of matrimony. It is the third wheel on which some spouses unload their marital problems, but which most times complicates them. A husband goes on a philippic on social media on how women are unfaithful because he suspects his partner is cheating, and a wife flies ‘the men are scum’ trope because she suspects her spouse has a side chick – to the entertainment of strangers who do not give a hoot.

I recall the case of a certain man who went on a social media joyride, revealing lewd details of his wife. The marriage ended in divorce.

I think marital differences become irreconcilable when social media is invited to bed. The internet never forgets. Really, we live in a society where marriage counsellors are mostly pastors without training and who lack competence to advise anyone on marriage. Biblical prescriptions often counselled by pastors – of ‘’wife submit to your husband and husband love your wife’’ – are flawed and vacant of real-life solutions.

So, most people turn to social media to vent about their marital challenges and seek answers from strangers – without vicarious experience. But every marriage experience is unique. As faces are different, so are the problems. It is not one size-fits-all. The prescriptions for marriage A could be lethal for marriage B. I believe every marriage must work out its own salvation, and in the event peace becomes the Holy Grail in the union, there is the exit door which is as wide as the entry door. Marriage should not be a life sentence with hard labour. But fundamentally, salvaging it should be primary.

SOCIAL MEDIA AND MARRIAGE STATISTICS

Here is what Perspectives of Troy Counselling Centre, a counselling and mental health centre in the US, says on social media and marriage statistics.

‘’A recent study from Boston University revealed that non-social network users were 11.4% happier in their marriages than couples who frequently used social media. Heavy users were 32% more likely to contemplate leaving their spouse. The study also suggested a possible correlation between the number of Facebook users in a state and the divorce rates for the area. States with a higher increase of Facebook users showed similar increase in divorce rates.

Another study in Great Britain showed that close to 25% of married couples argued at least once a week because of social media use, and 17% fought daily over something they found about their spouse online. 20% of respondents reported that they fought with their spouses on Facebook, and nearly half said they secretly logged into their spouse’s accounts.’’

As a matter of fact, social media removes from a union exclusivity – a key ingredient for a congenial relationship — when spouses elect to communicate their problems to amused aliens online instead of thrashing out issues with their partners. I read on Twitter on Saturday of a certain lady who was regaling her followers with details of incidents in her marriage to which she admitted her husband was absolutely unaware of. Communication is the lifeblood of marriage. But when primary communication is relocated outside a relationship, the union becomes eviscerated of emotion.

Why should your spouse become aware of your challenge on social media – and it is not that you ever communicated it to him/her in any way before?

I spoke briefly to Marriage Matters International on social media use and marriage, and here is what the counselling centre says: ‘’I would advise couples not air their dirty linen in public, it is very unhealthy; it complicates the situation, rather they should share testimonies to encourage other couples. Couples should seek professional help if they are having challenges in their marriage.’’

Keep your marital business off social media. A wrecking marriage is salvageable with social media uninvited.

Fredrick Nwabufo is a writer and journalist.

Twitter @FredrickNwabufo

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